Monday, December 19, 2011

just friends.

"You're not friends. You'll never be friends. You'll be in love till it kills you both. You'll fight, and you'll hate each other until it makes you quiver, but you'll never be friends. Love isn't brains, children, it's blood -- blood screaming inside you to work its will."

question of the day, can you be just friends? 


  1. Here's your answer:

  2. yes, you can always be friends. will it take a while? probably. well - that is if you've been in love before. its rough, but it can happen. granted, there will always be a little bit of feeling there. but its possible.

  3. 100%. It'll take time and probably be harder for one of you than the other, but you've got to decide if it's worth it. For me it was. I was ready to be friends within 2 weeks after the breakup, but I knew that would be hard for him so I mostly avoided him for the next 2 months. Now we talk occasionally, but I don't want to lead him on. Even though I would be fine seeing him more often as friends, I have to give him lots of space and ignore texts sometimes so he can move on. It's only fair. You just have to consider what's best for both of you. It might take a while to figure out.


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